by Zach Beach | Feb 28, 2021 | Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Relationships, Science of Love, Skills for Love
There’s plenty of things to argue about, but raising the volume and frequency of the arguments NEVER gets you the appreciation and respect that you are looking for.And unfortunately the more time you spend trying to tell the person that they’re no good,...
by Zach Beach | Feb 21, 2021 | Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Relationships, Science of Love, Skills for Love, Spirituality
If we can embrace that our loneliness is just the shadow side of our uniqueness and our deepest self, then all of a sudden, we have an opportunity to befriend it, to move towards it, to get to know ourselves better, and to enjoy who we are even more deeply. Now I...
by Zach Beach | Jan 24, 2021 | Communication, Parenting, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Science of Love, Skills for Love
No matter how we look at this issue, the kind of relationship the parents have affects the child. If the couple is focused on being a we, and not an I, if they are being teammates and supporting each other, that is not only beneficial for them, but it is beneficial...
by Zach Beach | Dec 27, 2020 | Dating, Mindfulness, Nonmonogamy, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Science of Love
“Dating from a place of curiosity is a lot more fun than dating to check to see if somebody fits a mold or not, which often times leads to a lot of disappointment. So to really date from a place of openness, and really wanting to get to know people, is a way to...
by Zach Beach | Oct 25, 2020 | Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Relationships, Science of Love, Self-Love, Sex
“Toxic love is the belief that the other person is either the solution to all of our problems, or the cause of them. It takes many forms, including obsession and violence, or even avoidance of intimacy. You have some people who think, ‘I cannot lose this...
by Zach Beach | Sep 13, 2020 | Communication, Podcast Episodes, Posts for Everyone, Relationships, Science of Love
“The behaviors of secure attachment feel like this: I am here to create security for you. This relationship is a priority. When you are in distress, I’m here to help you alleviate that stress. As two people are committed to empower each other’s true...
